- Gender is Female
- I was born in Hong Kong
- 20 Years old, 160cm, *secret*kg
- English, Cantonese, Mandarin, (Japanese & Korean)
- I have been in my current relationship for more than 3 years now and I am Engaged
- Likes to keep everything simple and plain
- I cry more easily than I smile and laugh
- It is just too easy to piss me off, like I dont need to tell you how to
- I seek perfection in everything that I do, this is why I always know I will have a bright future
ahead of me, created with my own hands, not from a rich boyfriend
- I dont see why I have to care about you if you dont
- I dont like reading, especially English books
- Look down on those who seek partner for wealth and personal pleasure
- Loves Shopping and spending money,Karaoke,internet,small groups of people,travelling and exploring the world,sleeping,taste all different kinds of food,learning new languages,photography
- I am strange.I like the smell of raw fish,notes,new books,and paper bags
- I dont have a favourite colour-but I absolutely detest pink (on myself anyway)
- I am absolute against having pets in my own home, and I am quite frankly scared of most of them (maybe apart from goldfish)
- A big secret!! I LOVE BABIES!I plan to have 2 children after I get married
- Talking about my wedding,I will make sure in my whole life I look the most beautiful on that day (which means a lot of work and money)
- BUT!! SAY *NO* TO PLASTIC SURGERY
MUJI says- A life with no effort is not a life at all.
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-I am Female -I was born in Hong Kong -I am 20 Years Old -English, Cantonese, Mandarin, (Japanese & Korean) -I am Engaged -Likes to keep everything simple and plain -I cry more easily than I smile and laugh -It is just too easy to piss me off, like I dont need to tell you how to -I seek perfection in everything that I do, this is why I always know I will have a bright future ahead of me, created with my own hands, not from a rich boyfriend -I dont see why I have to care about you if you dont -I dont like reading, especially English books -Look down on those who seek partner for wealth and personal pleasure -Loves Shopping and spending money,Karaoke,internet,small groups of people,travelling and exploring the world,sleeping,taste all different kinds of food,learning new languages,photography -I am strange.I like the smell of raw fish,notes,new books,and paper bags -I dont like publishing messages on the web t
I am so the type that would definitely get married, and have kids. In fact, I was engaged at the age of 18. Although it was informal, it was meaningful and it still has its meaning 2.5 years later. To me, without going through these two stages, there would be an empty spot in life.
There are 2 types of people who would reject the idea of getting married, I think. One, those who enjoys to be single, and Two, those who enjoys to be in multiple relationships. To them, getting married would probably mean restrains to their love/ sex life. Especially after having children there are so many things you can no longer do.
But does not wanting to get married means you dont love the person enough to want to spend the rest of your life with them??
This is a common problem that almost everyone faces some point at their lives- you think somebody that you like likes you but really she doesnt. This phenomenal tends to happen to guys more. Why? Because as I have mentioned before, some women are evil and they like to play around with innocent hearts, so that they could use it to their advantage. GUYS! You've got to be smarter!
WHY ARE THEY SO EVIL?
POPULARITY Who doesnt want to be popular? 75% of women tend to just flirst with whoever they see. Those who think they are pretty will go for ones of higher standards. Those who know they are a slight minger will target the ones that are less attractive. Even with people who are in a relationship already still flirt! Somehow having a boyfriend doesnt mean anything.... poor boyfriends!
MATERIALISM OK this is the utmost evil one- If the target is stupid enough to fall for her again and again she could easily get everything she wants just by saying once a month, "I really miss you and want to see you...are you free this weekend? *Wink*" Poor guy is so blindly in love that he will never see her evil plans until he sees her with another man, probably a lot richer than he is...
HER BOYFRIEND HAS PROBLEMS This often turns into one of them triangular love thing like we see in movies. You know like how A likes B but B is in a relationship with C, but then C and B had problems and so B is really upset and this is when A comes into scene and comforts B and eventually it turns into a mess. And once B broke up with C she'll be so heartbroken and because A is always there for her she thinks she likes A... blah blah blah
HOW DO THEY DO IT??
PHYSICAL CONTACT The occasional head on shoulders plus a quote like "You've got such a strong shoulder whoever's your girlfriend is so lucky"; The eye contact and smiles; The arm round his arm when walking down the streets; The occasional hugs; The close-ness that she provides when the two are taking a picture etc, you name it, SO MANY!!
CHOICE OF WORDS Depending on the guy choice of words would obviously be different. Some likes to be praised of his physique, things like "Oh my god you are so fit"; Some are less over the top and therefore the occasionaly "I miss you"s or hinting "I am very lonely recently,will you take me out?" will so easily electrified the guy; Some are more sexually hyped up and I dont know what kind of words they would use but I can imagine it to be pretty extreme.
DENIAL The girl will never deny nor admit whether she likes you or not. She is afraid that the minute she says it, you will stop liking her and that will be one down in her list of "admirers". PLEASE PLEASE remember this.
So how can you tell whether she feels the same for you or just simply being a bitch and flirting? Girls gamble the fact that you're too shy to ask her for the ultimate answer, and it normally works.Somebody who likes you will respond, in the positive and normal way. A girl who keeps flirting with you and asking you for things (even "lend me your shoulder" or "take me out for a drink") but never gives you the ultimate answer that you want to hearOBVIOUSLY doesnt want to be with you officially!! I'm sure after a longggg period of time you guys would realise that it is only you waiting for an answer but she has never planned in giving it to you in the first place.....
And if you still dont want to let go, Well, serves you right and what a lucky bitch she is!
Women can be very evil, but they are also evily stupid.
We are talking about typical women here. Maybe 75% of the female population. Women are emotional creatures, as we discussed before. A lot of time they dont use logic to think things through, especially with relationships. And so, it leads to a lot of cotradictions.
When a man cheats on a woman, the typical 75%, instead of rescuing themselves out of the relationship, remains in their awkward and angered position, holding the thought, "I have given so much into this relationship (/family), all my time, (my youth), my money and my love. And now he goes off with another woman. I will lose everything that I have invested if I give up now. NO, I NEED TO GET HIM BACK."
Fair enough.
But then owing to the reasons that they can no longer think with logic, some just uncontrollably trying to control their other half- and this is where the <6000000 messages and phone calls a day> comes in. The woman can no longer trust what the man is doing and even if he isnt she still thinks he is (seeing the other woman). And eventually, the guy hates you more and more but because of guilt he cant spilt out "Let's end" to you, so you just spend the rest of your days crying over why hes doing this. OR, why YOU were doing THIS. yeh, you'd probably say, "Cos I just cant let go of him."
You also get the ones who are evil and think they are very clever. They would pretend nothing has happened in order to get their "revenge". In other words, competing with the new-comer to get him back and make him love you even more. But normally it doesnt work. And if you have a brain you would know why. If he was going to choose you in the first place, then why would he run off to another girl...
There are also a type who makes a great start but fails at the end. They would determinedly break up with their boyfriend, and then cry and cry. Until one day (say, a week later) he calls again, crying on the phone saying how sorry he was and that he really wants you back. "Oh I love you I really do..." He would also "swear tp god" that he has already broken up with her. And so easily and with no effort- the girl would cry and cry again and get back with him. Girls we all need to face it. Some men/ Most men are jerks, greedy jerks. They use their bottom half of the body to think. And in my opinion, boys probably think its cool that he was able to cope with more than one women, and the more he has shows how strong he is..
So, you love him, but you hate him too...hmm tricky.
To Be Continued, later- The psychology of the evil new-comers.
I was on the phone for over an hour to him today. He told me that he had really missed me all these years. It made me sad.
I cant seem to remember much about him now...its has probably been too long.
I remember how we used to be so happy together, and that everything was so perfect. He had the ideal job, and was able to spend time with me every two days. He would occasionally tell me off for being silly, but that rarely happened.
I remember how we used to go out and spent every weekend together, and whenver I get tired he would carry me on his back. I mean, I knew how heavy I was back then. He bought me real delicious food and a lot of things that I like. He made me smile a lot.
Until one day, he left me behind. Another woman came into his life, he never cared about me since then.. He spent most of the time with that woman. When before he used to spend as least 4 days a week with me. It got down to every sunday. And from then on he had stopped doing all the things that would make me happy.
It brought about many tears since knowing what he did. There was no more smiling and happiness around me.
And so eventually I came to England. It was a fresh start, without him. I lived on, doing my studies, continuing with my life. I've met my own dearest now, whilst he sits on the other of the world by himself, weeping away.
How long has it been like this for?I cant really remember.
I was still in touch with him these years over the phone. Until now. He would ask me how I am getting on with life, whether I am enjoying life and so on.
But never did he apologise for what he did... Even to this day, he doesnt mention what he did to me, to us...
My dearest Father, If only you knew a little earlier.
If only you would understand how cruel you was to mom, and to your child.
I emphasised "their" women because the very first thing you gentlemen need to know is that however a woman might be acting in front of others, when she is in from of you- her partner, she will ALWAYS be a different person and however ridiculous you are finding it to believe,
"Women were born to be loved, not to be understood".
DO NOT ASK ME WHY EITHER.It is in the hormones.
We never need a reason to be angry. So dont even attempt. But of course the most obvious one (and excuse) is when we are on our period. Generally around that week nothing will be right and to top it all, whatever YOU do will be wrong and needs criticising.
Women like men's accompany- whilst we are shopping, to sit aside with you head resting on your fist is not a very good idea. I'm sure she wouldnt mind shopping at the men's department either- so why cant you just do the same? We like you to get involved and give your opinions too, saying "It looks nice" to everything is not. More to that- 50 pairs of shoes are not enough and we will always want more! Because to match your hair you will need the right colour top, to match the top you will need the right cutting trousers and so on....But then at the end of the day, who are we trying to please right?
We absolutely hate it when you say "I dont mind, up to you" to every single question we ask you. But then sometimes we are so fussy as well, and take forever to choose even a toothbrush, so I dont blame you guys really. No two dresses will ever be the same- especially when you say it. "You just want to leave", she thinks.
(Most) women have a great memory. We can remember everybody's birthday, when we first date, when we first kissed, every anniversary and the lot. Men on the other and.. admit it, you lot are absolutely hopeless with dates. So whilst we forgive after moaning that you have forgotten again- please allow it.
We like to be praised and to show-off, especially in front of others. This is to men as well I 'm sure, but in a different way. We like you to pay for us whilst others dont, we like you to be that gentlemen to get us drinks take us home and the lot. To hold all the shopping bags and have lunch with your friends then say, "It's my husband's credit card" MUAHAHAHA! Of course some women also take this to the very maximum advantage and they arent looking for a partner, but a bank. (Yes, women can be REALLY greedy!)
We love surprises. Let's not get into the greedy women business again. But if she sees you holding a bunch of flowers, a book that she wanted to read, or even food that she likes to eat, the minute you walk into the house. She will be very happy indeed because she will think you actually pay attention to her and care about her.
We absolutely hate it when you fall straight asleep after having sex. Women like cuddles and naked sweet talks. Its something you cant run away from however much you want to. It is called intimacy, which most of you men dont understand because all you need is bang, bang and bang. If you keep walking off to shower right after or else your woman is bound to leave you one day! Because she would think you dont love her anymore =( Also when we dont want to have sex, leave us alone please. There is alot of "mood" invovled in a woman's talk!!
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Why? Because as I have mentioned before, some women are evil and they like to play around with innocent hearts, so that they could use it to their advantage. GUYS! You've got to be smarter!
Women can be very evil, but they are also evily stupid.
There are also a type who makes a great start but fails at the end. They would determinedly break up with their boyfriend, and then cry and cry. Until one day (say, a week later) he calls again, crying on the phone saying how sorry he was and that he really wants you back. "Oh I love you I really do..." He would also "swear tp god" that he has already broken up with her. And so easily and with no effort- the girl would cry and cry again and get back with him.
Women like men's accompany- whilst we are shopping, to sit aside with you head resting on your fist is not a very good idea. I'm sure she wouldnt mind shopping at the men's department either- so why cant you just do the same? We like you to get involved and give your opinions too, saying "It looks nice" to everything is not. More to that- 50 pairs of shoes are not enough and we will always want more! Because to match your hair you will need the right colour top, to match the top you will need the right cutting trousers and so on....But then at the end of the day, who are we trying to please right?
We absolutely hate it when you fall straight asleep after having sex. Women like cuddles and naked sweet talks. Its something you cant run away from however much you want to. It is called intimacy, which most of you men dont understand because all you need is bang, bang and bang. If you keep walking off to shower right after or else your woman is bound to leave you one day! Because she would think you dont love her anymore =( Also when we dont want to have sex, leave us alone please. There is alot of "mood" invovled in a woman's talk!!
